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What’s New with AWR?

Monday, May 14th, 2012

I can still make time to play hookie and see the cherry blossoms with my girls.

Well friends, it has been awhile since my last blog. You may be wondering if I fell of the face of the Earth, not exactly. I did, however, accept a job as a museum educator at the Smithsonian’s Early Enrichment Center. For those of you who don’t know, the Smithsonian Early Enrichment Center or SEEC, as it’s called, is a lab school with locations on the grounds of the National Museum of American History and the National Museum of Natural History. They use teach age-appropriate themes through the objects at the Smithsonian and National Gallery of Art. They are also one of the leaders in early childhood MUSEUM education.

As you can imagine, this has meant a huge transition for me and my family (I haven’t held a traditional job in over six years). So, why did I choose to take the job you ask??? Truth is, I was going a little crazy at home. I would drop my youngest off at preschool three days a week and head back home to an empty house to work on AWR. I loved the teaching, but I wasn’t feeling inspired or connected to my peers. I needed something else and for me, SEEC was the answer. Not only do I get to continue to teach to early childhood audiences (I am currently teaching infants, two’s and four year-olds), I get to actually interact with other adults. And on some days, I even get to where a skirt and heels to work. The best of all…..it is part-time!!! That means that I am home in time to meet the bus, head to swim lessons and help with homework.

It is not all perfect, the first month both girls got Scarlet Fever and we paid out the nose for a nanny. My husband has to figure out how to make his workday fit into eight hours instead of ten. But he has managed to establish a great morning routine with the girls and now our parenting duties are more equally dispersed. I am still reeling over how much summer camp costs and I am definitely going to miss that 3-week visit to my parent’s house in the summer. All in all, things are coming together.

So what does the future hold for AWR?

Well, I am not entirely sure. The balancing act continues. It looks like I’ll be offering some new courses at Glen Echo Park in the fall and drum roll please…….AWR might be providing classes at SEEC. Things are still tentative, but I am hopeful. This means we would have a home base from which to teach and the chance to do the activities together, as a group. In the meantime, I hope to continue to provide a platform for promoting family-friendly art and cultural events in the area and encouraging families to utilize the museums as a place of learning for the smallest of children (did I mention I am teaching infants). I promise to keep you posted!

On Being a Mom and Running Your Own Business

Thursday, November 4th, 2010

Imagine it; blue skies, a light breeze, the warm sun, a frosty drink in-hand and the sound of nothing but the waves hitting the surf.  My husband and I lived briefly in this world for three days this past weekend while my parents took care of our two daughters.  It was a little slice of heaven and for a moment, I was reminded of life pre-parenthood.  The days when my husband and I would sleep in until 10, eat long dinners, and not always feel completely and utterly exhausted at the end of each night.  I was reacquainted with the feeling of relaxation.

It occurred to me how hard this mom gig can be, especially when you own your own business.  I have never been a full-time working mom, so I have nothing to compare it to.  I do know that juggling mommy time with work time is making me crazy.  Running your own business is never-ending.  There is always something to do, someway to make it better, some lead you have to follow, and some article you should read.  Prior to launching Art Within Reach I was apparently the only 35-year-old on the planet who was not tweeting or blogging.  So, now I am also tasked with becoming an expert on social media and Google Adwords.  I mean really, how many hours are there in the day?    Oh and did I mention that tiny little detail, nobody has been paying me.  And my sitter (I know, the audacity), still expects to be paid. So there is the added bonus of having to worry about what this endeavor is doing to our bank account.  I won’t even go into the housework, but needless to say, my husband and children still expect dinner and a semi–clean the house.

I know if you are a mom, you know this feeling.  You take two steps forward and one step back each day.  You vacuum the floor after lunch and realize dinner is just hours away and there is no way your two-year-old (or five-year-old for that matter) isn’t going to drop half her rice on the floor.  So why am I complaining?  Didn’t I decide to have the two kids; didn’t I decide to start the business???  I think my husband said it best when we first got pregnant, “Nothing good comes without great sacrifice.”  The older I get the more I agree with this statement.  When I am in the midst of working, I am fully engaged and excited.  When the girls and I are playing tickle monster and their giggles fill the house, there is no place I’d rather be.  And the truth is, I even take some pleasure in a clean, organized house and a good dinner.  In the end, I mostly wish for more time to enjoy and revel in these things.  What we all wouldn’t do for an extra day in the week!

As we speak what little tan I have from our weekend getaway is beginning to fade and every so often I look up and am confronted with suitcases that are only half unpacked.  I guess the lesson is to focus on what I did accomplish today; I chaperoned my daughter’s class field trip, taught a class in the afternoon and FINALLY finished this blog!!

First Week of Kindergarten

Sunday, September 5th, 2010

It was my eldest daughter’s first week of kindergarten.  She is a bright, little girl who was completely ready for the next step in her education and social development.  I was finding this age to be more trying than anything I had dealt with thus far and I too was ready for her to resume a regular schedule, particularly one that involved her being out of the house.  Still, this was a tough week.  We went to Hershey Park over the weekend and found it difficult to enjoy myself.  It was always in the back of my mind that my baby was starting kindergarten.

Somebody asked me why I was so anxious about it; after all she had been in preschool.  True.  So why was I having a hard time letting go?  Was I making a bigger deal of it than it needed to be?   After all I was so worried about preschool, and that turned out to be just fine.

When it comes down to it, it really is a myriad of things.  Most of which, what kindergarten signifies – the end of a more playful, relaxed and quiet life.  Being a stay-at-home mom is not always a walk-in-the-park, but to be certain it offers you the ability to stop and smell the roses from time-to-time.  I recall days when one of the girls would wake up with a sniffle or had an off night and it was no big deal to arrive late for school or just blow it off altogether.  I will miss those impromptu days when we played hooky.  My cousin in Michigan has a son in kindergarten and his day is drastically different than my daughter’s.  He goes for three hours in the morning, no lunch (please don’t get me started on how much I already loathe making lunches). There is part of me that is envious that she gets extra time with her son and their day is not as hectic or long.

After my daughter’s first day of school, which she thoroughly enjoyed, she mentioned that there weren’t nearly as many toys in kindergarten as there were in preschool.  Granted, her school had a play-based curriculum, but there was something sad about this comment.  She was definitely noting a shift in her environment to more table work.  She was lamenting the change.

There is no doubt we are moving into a new stage; one where the world will expect more from the both us.  It is a world where I ultimately have less influence and control, which is really, really scary.   I try to tell myself, stay calm, stay involved, stay rational and love her.  This works some of the time.  The rest of the time, I analyze things to death and worry that she’ll end up a homeless, drug addict because I didn’t send her to the right elementary school. So, basically I’m your average mom.

For the moment, I am trying to relish the longer days with my younger daughter and do look forward to our kindergarten adventures.  I guess this is just the beginning of many transitions where we have to let go as parent….

Why I decided to Teach about Art and Museums to Little Kids

Thursday, August 26th, 2010

My daughter and I looking at Fernand Léger, Two Women

Somewhere in my second year of grad school, I realized that I would not be getting my  PhD and becoming a world renowned curator.  Instead I wanted to teach about art; its history, its beauty, its makers, its cultural meaning and importance to our world.  When I got my first full-time job at the Smithsonian, I started volunteering for the education department and as luck would have it, a position opened and I got the job!  I took on the role of educator for docents and tours at the Smithsonian’s Freer and Sackler Galleries.  As part of the job, I completed gallery teacher training and regularly gave tours.  To my surprise, I was really good at it.  I  couldn’t get enough of it and the kids seemed to respond well to me.

The Freer and Sackler had a multiple visit program with DC Public Schools at the time.  Educators and artists would go to the school and give a lesson, i.e. Chinese calligraphy, Japanese tea ceremony.  Following each school visit, the kids would come to the museum where they would see art related to their lesson.  What I discovered was that most of these kids had never been to a museum before..  I was really excited to give them the opportunity to visit an art museum, feel comfortable and have fun.  And lets admit it, art museums don’t always give off that comfortable, fun vibe to kids.  It feels really great to introduce people to art for the first time and have them enjoy it.  You feel like you have opened a door to a new world.  That was the initial seed for Art Within Reach.

Then my daughter came along and being the first-time mommy that I was, I was quite certain that she would be familiar with all of DC’s art museums by the time she was six months old.  Not so!  Besides the realities of motherhood setting in, I realized that there wasn’t a whole lot out there for my little one.  I was enrolled in a workshop at the Smithsonian Early Enrichment Center (leaders in object based learning for early childhood audiences) and it inspired me to cultivate this idea in my head.  I wanted to fill the void in children’s activities in the DC area!  There are music classes, sport classes, art (making) classes, dance classes, yoga classes; you name it.   However, when it came to art museum programs or art appreciation classes for kids under 8, the list was limited; a travesty if you consider all the art museums DC has to offer.  (I should pause here to mention that museum’s often don’t have the means to hire an education department large enough to support offering quality programming to audiences of all ages.  And there is no denying that our little rug rats present their own set of challenges!)

My hope is to provide a fun first-time experience with art that will ultimately lay the foundation for a lifetime of interest in the arts, visual and otherwise.

Do you know of early childhood art appreciation/history programs, let me know.

For more information about early childhood programs in our area, visit;

The National Gallery of Art

National Museum of African Art

The Walters Art Museum

For more information about museum-based programs for early childhood audiences, visit our Museum Tours page.

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